
Misfit
HR Misfit
A person whose behavior or attitude sets them apart from others in an uncomfortable or conspicuous way; someone who is not typically accepted because their behavior is strange or unusual.
An HR practitioner whose behavior or attitude sets them apart from others; they go against the grain, disrupt "the way we've always done it," and they despise the term "Personnel."
Ami Graves
An HR Misfit who loves exploring the why, pushing boundaries, taking risks, and propelling businesses forward with a people-centered, Golden-Rule approach. With a little humor and a no B.S. attitude sprinkled in.

I’m Ami Graves—CHRO, speaker, storyteller, and unapologetic HR misfit. I’m a hands-on, passionate business leader who believes that people are the business. For over 25 years, I’ve helped organizations generate value through their people by leading diverse teams, driving business growth, and building people-first cultures rooted in innovation, transformation, and impact. I’ve led HR strategy across high-growth environments—from non-profits to biotech to tech—always with a focus on authentic leadership, meaningful change, and creating space for others to thrive.
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But behind the title is a real story.
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I fell into HR in 1996 when I was hired at the NCAA. Seven years, a bachelor's degree, and a lot of grit later, I left collegiate sports for Rolls-Royce—ready to take on the corporate world as a young single mom working full-time while finishing my degree at IU. It was heavy, it was humbling, and it shaped who I am as a leader.
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Fast forward 25 years (plus a master’s degree and plenty of life lessons), and today I serve as the Chief Human Resources Officer for an IT Managed Services company headquartered in Indianapolis. I also happen to be a working mom of six, a certified life coach, and someone who believes leadership is less about having all the answers and more about how you show up—especially when things are hard.
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Now, I use my voice sharing my thoughts on my blog and on stage to inspire others to lead with courage, clarity, and compassion. Whether you’re planning a leadership summit, women’s conference, or corporate retreat, I’d love to partner with you to spark conversations that matter.
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Stories connect us! Want to share yours on The HR Misfit Blog? Reach out and we'll swap our best stories about work, career paths, mistakes, growth, all the things that brought us where we are today. I invite you to join me as we explore HR in a way that benefits everyone in the workplace. I welcome your questions, comments, feedback and insights. Message me at amijograves@gmail.com. ​